Living in view of the Second Advent of Christ

by | Posted April 19th at 7:27am

“… live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ…” (see Titus 2:12-13 ESV)

In the epistle written to and named after his pastoral co-worker Titus, the apostle Paul aimed to strengthen Titus’s ministry on the Grecian island of Crete, where there were many pagan influences. Titus was to teach all the new converts to become “strong in the faith” (1:13). Paul commented on the primary social relationships within marriages, homes, individual life and work–to be transformed profoundly in the context of the gospel relationship to Jesus Christ from within, via the Spirit informing us how to live as we follow the Word of God.

In the first century AD, the early churches were being infiltrated by false teachers teaching false doctrine–an emphasis in Paul’s letter. However, it is refreshing to notice that Paul focuses not on our outward rules-based motivation but rather on a lifestyle motivated by the love of Jesus Christ. Whereas the false teachers were deceivers (1:10), Titus was to promote the kind of living that reflects correct teaching outside of any misalignment to the Word of God. Through biblical knowledge and acceptance of “correct teaching,” we can navigate a righteous life with the help of the Holy Spirit. However, we can fail if we take our eyes off the Lord when we are upset, tired, hungry, or fearful. When the rubber hits the road, the behaviour should match belief.

Paul gave Titus examples of the proper Christian behaviour expected within the churches. The primary concern of the letter is that correct doctrine leads to appropriate behaviour. Titus 2:1–15 will be our focus as this text describes proper behaviour and that such behaviour must be rooted in the gospel and its teachings–and that our leaders in the church must teach these guidelines with authority.

Middle-age and senior men are an example to younger men
“Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and steadfastness.” (Titus 2:2 ESV)

Older men are the senior community members of the village, town or city, and should be examples of biblical maturity. Thus, they are to exercise self-control, meaning that their lives should show moderation with an absence of extravagance–worthy of respect as “serious-minded” men focused on the promulgation of the gospel.

They are to be sound in their faith, having a personal faith in God by maintaining the Christian truth of the gospel. They should be loving, never displaying anger or bitterness. (see John 13:34).

Middle-age and senior women are examples to younger women
“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behaviour, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.” (Titus 2: 3-5 ESV)

Just as the apostle Paul noted that Titus was to teach men how they ought to live, he also had the responsibility to guide the churches’ women—their lifestyles should be appropriate—dignified, worthy of honour, Christlike.

Older women are important role models for younger women, desperately needed in society. Today we see loose living as ungodly men prey on young women. Premarital abstinence from sex outside of marriage is not common. What lifestyle are women to adopt? Paul advises a respectful attitude toward all aspects of life and people of all ages, not to go around gossiping negatively about others, nor should they be heavy drinkers.

Mothers, grandmothers, and aunts teach others what is good by observing their lives and sharing their wisdom, knowledge, and faith within family circles and friends. No woman should regard her life as of a lesser value to Jesus Christ. When children have left the nest or after retirement from a career, they should never despair or fear loneliness but actively offer their wisdom, prayers, and examples in the church. Rock-solid women of faith are always needed!

Older women can train the younger women in the church by word and example. Lifestyle is the best teacher of “what is good” (verse 2:3). They can encourage the young women in the church to love their husbands and their children. Women have the closest relationship with their daughters, which carries on into later years.

Many Christian women have won the hearts of their husbands and children simply by showing gentle respect for the father’s leadership in the home and motivating him to love and guide his household safely and biblically in Christ. This often becomes controversial if the husband discerns non-Christian boys flirting with his daughters, or non-Christian boys influencing his sons, if he determines the need to and desires to maintain a hedge of protection in the faith for his household, this can be viewed as overbearing and controlling. However, Christian fathers need God-directed control of their own and their family’s lives.

The lineage of authority in the home
Like older men advising the younger men, older women need to live wisely and “train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure”.

Young women are to be submissive to their husbands. Submission between marriage partners is an often misunderstood concept. This text, for example, cannot be used to promote the general subjugation of all women under all men. For marriage and family relationships to run smoothly, there must be one appointed leader—God has appointed the husband and father to be this leader. The wife should willingly follow her husband’s leadership in Christ, acknowledging his responsibility under God.

Maturity provides the key to understanding submission. The husband must not be a tyrant, faithless, unloving, or impatient, as previously mentioned in verse 2. He should be worthy of respect.

Likewise, the woman should not undermine or contradict the man which can aggravate disrespect among the children for his headship in the family. However, he may need to learn better methods of such leadership (there is no manual except the example of older men who live by the Word of God). Submission means for both the husband and the wife to accept the relationship that God has designed, voluntarily subjecting oneself to God’s order of authority within the family and fulfilling the responsibilities that come with it (for more of Paul’s advice about marriage, (see 1 Corinthians 7:1–40); men are to love their wives and wives are to reciprocate respect for the husband–and the inverse is also true–women are to respect their husbands and husbands are to reciprocate love for the husband. (see Ephesians 5:22–33).

Many women are happily submissive to their husbands, supporting their husbands’ leadership role in the family (see Ephesians 5:22; 5:23–24). When the children see this they also respect their father’s biblical guidance.

What is the purpose of this instruction?
Every believer’s purpose in following the Word of God is to glorify God. Believers are being watched. If they live righteous and blameless lives, they would not bring shame on the word of God. Paul also urged Titus to encourage the young men to live wisely in all they do:

“Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us” (Titus 2:6-8 ESV)

The advice that the apostle Paul gives in Titus is important training in right living and all Christians should take heed because it prepares us for the Second Coming of Jesus Christ our Lord. This training was to prepare men to become elders and expand the churches reach.

“For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.” (Titus 2:11-14 ESV)

God, by his grace, sent Christ to earth. Because of Christ’s death on the cross, salvation is available to all people, “so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life”. (Titus 3:7 ESV)

The grace of God was revealed in Christ, referring to the incarnation. That message of grace arrived in Crete with Paul and Titus and it is still applicable to us today. When the gospel light is turned on in a place of darkness, changes are inevitable. Those who respond are transformed; those who resist and reject the message can do so, but they must face the dire consequences.

Article posted by Glen R. Jackman, founder of GraceProclaimed.org

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